Internal Family Systems
Internal Family Systems (IFS) offers a transformative path to healing. Instead of fighting against the parts of us that drive overthinking, people-pleasing, and perfectionism, we learn to see them differently. We'll discover that these are just different parts of you, working their hardest to protect you—even if their protective strategies are causing you pain.
Reduce anxiety, prevent burnout, and build balance while still thriving in your career
How can IFS help you find balance?
Overthinking may come from a part of you that feels responsible for preventing mistakes or controlling outcomes. This part tries to keep you safe but can leave your mind racing, decisions feeling heavy, and stress mounting. Through IFS, we’ll get to know this part, listen to its concerns, and help it find calmer, more balanced ways to protect you.
People-pleasing often arises from a part that fears rejection or conflict. While it tries to maintain harmony, it can lead to stress, guilt, and exhaustion. IFS helps you understand what this part is carrying, develop compassion for it, and create healthier ways to engage with others while honoring your own needs.
Perfectionism is often driven by a part that worries about criticism or failure. Its intentions are protective, but the drive for flawless performance can fuel anxiety and burnout. In therapy, we approach this part with curiosity and compassion, helping it learn that “good enough” is enough—so you can pursue your goals without constant pressure.
By building a relationship with these parts of you with compassion and curiosity, you can find lasting inner harmony and a path to genuine healing.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a type of therapy that helps you understand the different “parts” of yourself—like the inner critic that pushes you to achieve, the worrier that won’t stop planning, or the part of you that just wants to shut down when life feels too heavy. Instead of fighting these parts, IFS helps you build a relationship with them.
At the core of IFS is the idea that you also have a calm, wise inner Self that isn’t anxious, overwhelmed, or judgmental. When you learn to lead from this Self, your parts don’t have to work so hard to protect you. Many clients describe this as finally feeling more like themselves—less reactive, more grounded, and able to make choices from clarity instead of fear.
IFS powerful for people dealing with anxiety, burnout, perfectionism, or people-pleasing. It’s a gentle, respectful way of working with your inner world that doesn’t require reliving painful memories or trying to “get rid of” your thoughts.
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Unlike approaches that focus only on problem-solving or analyzing your past, IFS helps you build a relationship with the different parts of yourself—including the ones that feel critical, anxious, or overwhelmed. Instead of trying to get rid of these parts, we get curious about what they’re protecting you from. Clients often find this approach more sustainable because it leads to self-compassion, not internal battles.
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Not at all. Many people worry they won’t recognize their parts or that they’re “doing it wrong.” In our sessions, I’ll guide you to notice small shifts in feelings, body sensations, or thoughts. These are often the first signals of a part speaking up. Over time, you’ll develop your own language for your system.
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Yes. Anxiety often comes from protective parts trying to keep you safe from failure, rejection, or loss of control. Burnout can come from parts that push you to overwork or people-please. In IFS, we don’t just reduce symptoms—we work with the underlying parts so you can create balance that actually lasts.
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Everyone’s system is unique, but many clients say they feel relief just from understanding why their parts react the way they do. Over time, as you build trust with your parts, you may notice less inner conflict, a quieter inner critic, and more clarity in decision-making.